Trying to repay credit card debt can be devastating, especially when the debt amount is so high that you never get in front of it when making the minimum payments.

Growing up, I always heard you should have one credit card in case of emergency.  My parents were talking about having them if you were on a trip and your radiator went out, for example.  Unfortunately with the economy today, paying the power bill to keep the house full of kids warm during the winter has become the new emergency.

As a result, more and more people are suffocating under credit card debt and the relentless collection companies calling sometimes a dozen times a day to collect.  It’s no wonder that people keep it a secret and many people do, according to CNN Money.com,

Hidden debt is a common and insidious problem. “It’s a form of cheating so subtle you don’t even know you’re doing it,” said Bonnie Eaker Weil, a relationship expert and author of the book Financial Infidelity. “It’s a power struggle that can be more harmful to a relationship than adultery.”

I’ve reached the point in my own life that when I get an envelope in the mail promising me a silver, platinum or gold card with no interest payment for a year, I just put it in the shredder.  Sometimes enough is enough.

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